I’m sorry you became…Irrelevant

There will always be the bigger new best better thing, and humans have to be prepared for that. You are so replaceable! This means not resting on your fifteen minutes and working harder more each day rather than slacking off and resting on your laurals. You must constantly adapt to change and the market aroundContinue reading “I’m sorry you became…Irrelevant”

Emotional Cheating

Cheating (relationship-wise) most often involves having sex with someone other than your significant other and is usually just physical for the cheater (sorry, cheatee). But there is another type of cheating that is not physical (at least, not yet) that can somehow be more damaging to your relationship: Emotional Cheating. It’s there—an attraction, something—but not acted uponContinue reading “Emotional Cheating”

The Importance of Being Honest

The importance of being honest in relationships doesn’t get the press coverage that it deserves. Honesty is a tricky thing. How honest is too honest? Sometimes, you don’t want to be honest because it will hurt your girlfriend’s feelings. Her makeup seems over-the-top, let’s say. But there is a huge difference between little white liesContinue reading “The Importance of Being Honest”

The Fear of Happiness

Do you ever self-sabotage? I call it the fear of the unknown. I’ve been taught to trust nothing—and no one. Sometimes, a good thing comes along that is really awesome. Maybe that thing is indeed cool; maybe that’s just the dreamer in you, your illusioned self. Do you always think you’ve got the best? AreContinue reading “The Fear of Happiness”

Subconsciously, They Know

Ever since I started having regular s-e-x again, it’s like men can smell it on me or something. Not literally!—I always shower before leaving the house—but something, something is definitely going on. I don’t think I look, act, or dress any differently than I always have, but men are all over me. From my block toContinue reading “Subconsciously, They Know”


I think most ladies have experienced this. I won’t speak on behalf of men, because while they may experience feelings of the exact same nature, I doubt theirs manifest themselves quite this way. So here it is, one of the fascinating involuntary expressions of the female: The Perma-smile. This is when a gal goes throughoutContinue reading “Perma-Smile”